You meet a guy who seems great and he asks for your number. Then he starts eagerly texting you. There are in depth text conversations for days. You’re feeling good and can’t wait for that first date to get to know him better.
Suddenly – poof – he is gone. No follow up for a possible date, his answers are short and not like the text messages he was sending. Is he into you? Did he meet someone else? Did you blow it? You check your previous texts and everything seems fine, nothing to cause the disappearing act.
1- He’s not on the talkative side. He’d rather limit the conversation to a few chosen words mostly because he doesn’t know what to say to you.
2- He just met you and is struggling with the first phone call. He’s nervous about that first phone call impression.